If you keep asking why do I struggle to relax around emotionally available people, it usually means closeness has started feeling risky enough that protection arrives before trust has much room to form. Trust issues often feels less like one moment and more like a repeated inner position.
The system often chooses distance, testing, or self-protection early because unpredictability has become harder to separate from danger Over time, vulnerability fear and distance as safety can make the issue feel much larger, more personal, or more persistent than it first appears.
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